Recently, a young lady asked this question: How bad does sex hurt the first time? Click2lose weight blogs about health and wellness so sex and sexual health is a valid subject that should interest our readers.

first time sex

This is a delicate question and one that has no right or wrong answer. Honestly, your first time sexual experience – how good or how painful – will depend on your lover.

It’s far less painful if you are doing it at the right time in your life. By this I mean that you are truly in love with your partner and all the care, gentleness and passion is present leading up to the moment of penetration.

You see there has to be careful preparation made for your first time that’s best left in the hands of someone who really cares about you and is willing to spend the time to work up to the moment.

If you are not in a serious relationship with someone that you love and that loves you passionately, I would say put it off until you are in that situation. This should be a memorable, remarkable experience and one that you can look back on with fondness in your later years.

Please don’t just do this to be cool or to be part of some senseless statistic. Do this in your own time, when you are ready and with someone who cares for you deeply. This will ensure that you have a wonderful, relatively pain-free experience.

I’ve tried to be as candid as I could on what is indeed a family-oriented place. My only other recommendation would be to check your local library for books on “sex for virgins” to gain more knowledge of what to expect.

Try to learn more about your body and what to expect before you take the plunge into sexual intercourse.

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